When people say they want to “dance better,” what they often mean is doing more. More moves. More energy. More effort to show they know something. And that’s usually when the dance starts to feel off. The rhythm gets rushed. The connection fades. Everything feels a bit tense even if the steps are right. You can feel it when someone is trying. Not enjoying. Trying. Social dancing doesn’t respond well to that. The dancers who feel the most comfortable aren’t pushing. They’re adapting. They’re list